Welp, here we go again. Another year older, marginally wiser, and increasingly suspicious that no one knows what the hell they're doing on this planet. This marks the sixth consecutive year I've sat down on my birthday to compile a list of the most meaningful lessons I've learned over the previous 365 days. If you're …
Depth Over Downloads: Why Spending Time with Books Still Matters
Everyone wants faster information. But no one asks if faster information leads to better understanding — or a better life. In the age of AI and tweet-sized wisdom, we’ve confused information with transformation. But there’s a massive difference between knowing what a book says and being changed by it. The Delusion of Instant Learning In a recent interview, political journalist Ezra …
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The 20 Best Ideas I Stole in 2024
2024 was a year of big wins and even bigger wake-up calls. I got promoted, earned my blue belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, became a fully certified volunteer firefighter, broke 80 in golf for the first time, and — most importantly — welcomed my daughter into the world on New Year’s Eve. Not a bad highlight …
What I Tell My Younger Self Every Day
I’m always on the lookout for “Advice-I’d-Give-My-Younger-Self” articles. These pieces often contain valuable insights from older generations, like, “I wish I hadn’t worked so hard,” “I wish I’d let myself be happier,” or “I wish I’d stayed in touch with old friends.” While these reflections can be sobering, they offer a wealth of wisdom. I …
The Universal Handbook of Timeless Wisdom: 12 Foundations of a Fulfilling Life
“I cannot remember the books I’ve read any more than the meals I have eaten; even so, they have made me.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson Books helped me navigate my life. Over the last two decades, I’ve read hundreds of books — on philosophy, self-improvement, science, history, happiness, religion, nutrition, how-to guides, and memoirs. And …
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30 Life Lessons (I feel to be helpful but which I don’t always follow) on My 30th Birthday
At the Rise for the River benefit concert in Montana just a few months ago, John Mayer interrupted his solo acoustic performance to talk about his 2012 album, Born & Raised. It happens to be one of my favorite albums. When he paused to reflect on the record, John began speaking about his deep love …
